musings on musings

– Posted in: dating, letting go, moving

My baby cousin is going to get married in just a few short days. I say this as though we're both still looking for treasure and digging in the dirt in his parent's backyard in Queens. Memories--both dormant and seemingly forgotten--have been coming to life in the past few weeks. Consider it nostalgia, call it [...]

the Ikea test

– Posted in: dating, moving

A wise friend once told me that Ikea is the place where relationships go to die. This past weekend I crossed my fingers as Bryan and I zipped through the showrooms and headed to the warehouse to purchase various odds and ends for the new place. Up until that point, I had been riddled with [...]


– Posted in: moving, other, with the ladies

Asking me not to stress about things that are out of my control is completely futile. And when I stress, I take it out in cleaning bursts around the apartment. That's probably a good thing since anxiety hasn't factored into my life quite as much lately and the dust bunnies have settled in nicely over [...]

yes, i still love you

– Posted in: moving, Passover, work

Social media, work, writing for various other projects, and yes, a bit of socializing have been occupying much of my time as of late. As necessary as it was to take a bit of a break from the blog world, I'm excited to get back into the swing of things. Too much time apart and [...]

never had a home like this

– Posted in: moving

This past weekend Hoboken celebrated it's annual St. Patrick's Day parade, a tradition that brings the finest frat boys from the tri-state area. As any self-respecting, non-Irish, older-than-25 year old would do, I fled the city as fast as my little legs could carry. I've experienced all kinds of post-college antics but the stench of [...]