How to Find Love in 2013

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I’ve neglected to cover a topic here that has baffled, amused, and amazed me for years: dating. With a new year upon us, I’d like to return to the meat of this blog, and discuss the things that make men tick, why you should never tell a girl you’ll call if you have no intention after a first date, and some of the best places to pick up a cutie. Today I have a very special guest speaker at My Pixie Blog. Please welcome Matt of Lovestruck, an exciting new and casual dating service. Dating is stressful enough; it’s nice to know there’s a service out there that takes away some of the legwork and a lot of the pressure!


The New Year is perfect for a fresh start. Put all of the disappointments behind and get ready to find true love in 2013.

True love demands a pro-active attitude. Sitting at home and waiting for Prince Charming to knock on your door will typically prove to be an inefficient strategy. At the same time, finding that perfect man should never become an obsession. They say that good things happen when you least expect them, right?

Remember to have fun, socialize, and try new things in 2013. The more active and happy you are, the easier it will be for you to find that perfect partner.

Give Online Dating a Chance
In the past, many people kept a skeptical attitude about online dating. Today, the situation is very different–give it a try!

Online dating websites can be highly specialized or general, like You can join a dating website for Christians, for singles over the age of 40, for pet lovers, or for people who enjoy rock music. All you need is an open mind and the desire to get to know new people.

Enjoy Your Favorite Activities
Join an activity group or a class. Do you love photography? A photography course will give you a chance to perfect your skills and you will also get to meet similar-minded individuals.

Clubs and hobby groups are the perfect places to look for romance. All of the people will be interested in the same things and chances are that you and a nice guy will have a lot in common.

Stop Looking!
This sounds like a paradoxical advice for an article that is teaching you how to find love in 2013. Sometimes, however, the magic happens when you stop deliberately trying to achieve something.

Spend quality time with your friends, travel, and go clubbing. Turning your romantic pursuit into a mission will diminish your chances of success. Enjoy the wonderful moments and encounters that destiny throws your way. As long as you are open-minded and positive, you will experience a lot of fun and great things.

Get Your Friends Involved
A lot of clichés focus on blind dates and their failure rate.

Getting your friends to find you a date is actually a really good idea. These are the people that know you best and that understand what you are looking for. Plus, a blind date comes with a lot of excitement.

Have fun in 2013 and work on becoming a better and happier person. Everybody deserves love and as long as you are joyful, positive, and capable of accepting life’s surprises with a sense of humor, you will find that special someone!

This article was written by Matt who currently works for Lovestruck and firmly believes that everyone deserves to share their life with someone special. Having the right attitude and goal is an important aspect in helping you on this dating adventure in 2013.

2 Comments… add one
Single Mom in the South January 25, 2013, 5:10 PM

The stop looking tactic worked for me… or more correctly when I asked the guy I thought was “safe” to keep me company so I wouldn’t have to go be set up with someone I did not want to meet, we clicked. Joke was on me!

keishua January 28, 2013, 10:24 AM

friends are great resources. i met the hubs through mutual friends.

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